Withholding of Bowels & Bladder

Withholding happens when children ignore the urge to pee or poop, often because of fear, pain, or distractions. Over time, this can stretch the bladder or rectum, leading to constipation, accidents, and even infections. While it may look like resistance, withholding is rarely about behavior — it’s usually about fear, body discomfort, or sensory challenges.

Children may withhold after a painful stool, from anxiety about using the toilet, or because they have difficulty recognizing body cues. Parents may feel frustrated or helpless as the cycle continues. The longer withholding persists, the harder it becomes for children to regain control and comfort.

Pelvic floor therapy helps children feel safe and supported in letting go. We teach relaxation, body awareness, and postural techniques that make toileting less stressful. Families also learn positive, pressure-free strategies to encourage bathroom use without battles. This approach breaks the cycle of fear and withholding and restores healthy habits.

If withholding is creating stress in your child’s life, support is available. Schedule a consultation in Denver or virtually to help your child move forward.